Processing The Culling - Blog Post 2

Who Am I?

An interesting question. I thought I knew who I was. I mean, I know as human beings we are constantly evolving and changing, but how do you reckon with who you are when your whole world has been turned upside down? 

I had identified as a wife, not necessarily the kind of wife tied to mainstream gender roles, but I wore my ring proudly in public. I woke up every morning and chose my marriage, my commitment, my love. It was not perfect, but nothing is. 

For now, I am a woman whose husband has left her, ending a nine year relationship. These posts are my reckoning. They are my vulnerable, manic, ups and downs – my attempt to process. They are my perspective and thus, it should be noted, carry only my Truth. 

So, who am I? I’m figuring it out.